I think I may dump my bf over the fact that he rides. I've just lost 2 family members and he just got in a close-call bike crash. We agreed the year and a half ago he started to ride that if he crashed we were done. I've supported this hobby entirely and been his companion on the back so many days. But now, as someone who's father crashed his bike and subsequently put it down for his wife, he's saying **** like 'I'm sorry I ride but I just really like it'. I don't want to live in anxiety so he can ride some deathtrap to be cool. If he wants to ride I think he should do it without a lady eagerly anxiously awaiting his return at home. That's honestly selfish AF. Am I being unreasonable?