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I'm impressed by the amount of experience listed in the posts so far. I think if you take each one apart and try to digest,
and take notes, you will be overinformed on how to proceed. I'll just add a couple of more thoughts, not in any particular order:
Keep in mind that cost of anything often has to do with the name or reputation of an item, not necessarily the capability. So get a quality that is a reasonable cost to you. More important is that the item serves its purpose and fits. You'll have a miserable ride every time if your boots are too tight or your bike seat is wrong for your butt. A helmet won't work if you don't wear it "because it's too tight and too hot out here".
As stated, what ever bike you get won't be your first. Imagine learning to drive in a Ferrari. Would that be a good starter? Make it fit and be real affordable. You can more easily re-sell a bike under $2,000. than one for $7,000. Keep in mind the cost of licence and insurance.
While there are more choices of equipment on line than at you local dealers, you can actually try on the stuff at the dealer. You may pay a little more, but you have someone to help you. And you will need the dealer from time to time for parts, repairs, or maintenance. He'll remember his customers.
If you learn well from reading, an old friend, David Hough has the best selling new rider book published that you can refer to over and over:
Proficient Motorcycling: The Ultimate Guide to Riding Well, Updated & Expanded 2nd Edition (CompanionHouse Books) The Must-Have Manual: Confront Fears, Sharpen Handling Skills, & Learn to Ride Safely [Hough, David L.] on Amazon.com. *FREE* shipping on qualifying offers. Proficient Motorcycling...
www.amazon.com
And on YouTube there are a hundred videos of riding tips. Use that if you like.
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